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You've got to be kidding me, I have Breast Cancer? My name is Madelene Boudreaux. I just had my 51st birthday and my present was cancer. Although it wasn't the present I was expecting, I have decided to embrace it as such. My life as it existed is changed. Even though my diagnosis is that I have the most common breast cancer you can have (80% of the women who get breast cancer have this one) and the actual tumor was only 1.2 centimeters and there was only a microscopic spec in one lymph node... things just changed overnight. I feel confident that I will be healed with all the surgery, chemo and radiation, as well as the prayers, the shift in lifestyle and health changes, all of this with God as my Healer overseeing the whole plan. Most importantly, sunsets are more beautiful, my children are more precious and I cry for everything. Such clarity prevails, where life was blurry. I know my healing will come gently through trusted medical professionals, faith in a loving God and prayerful friends. I am surrounded by love with my family of eight kids and a great husband and a community of kind spirits!

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

And so the flowers begin to bloom!


Somewhere back in November while I hid away in a dark and dreary place, my husband would sneak away and in small increments of time, he would plant flowers in my garden, slowly working his way around the house in our very large garden. Planting flowers is therapy for me. Digging in the dirt makes me feel connected to the earth and its purposes. Ricky , on the other hand typically doesn't usually enjoy planting flowers. But this year he did it out of a desire to give me something to smile about. Snapdragons are one of my favorite flowers. They are so bold in color and their design is so unique. He planted lots of snaps. Meanwhile, I stayed inside, waiting for the the dreariness of winter to fade away. He was impatient with the results of his hard work, not realizing that the true beauty of the snapdragons would not unfold until the promise of Spring chased away the bite of Winter. I'm sure it is no accident that as I emerge out of the cold and dreary experience of chemo, so too, will the seasons change. The end of March brings a promise of a new kind of life for me. So as the flowers burst into full bloom, I embrace the end of chemo and gladly move on to what Spring has in store for me. Both of which are soon approaching.

To everything there is a season and a time for every purpose under heaven.


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